July 21, 2005

Luck, Vibes and Freaking Out

Tomorrow morning, to some hitherto unknown (by me) degree, life will change. It feels less like I'm at the edge of a cliff looking down, than at the bottom of a cliff looking up, trying to catch a glimpse of some of the footholds I'll eventually have to find. Oh, and have I mentioned that I'm freaking the fuck out so I can pretty much only focus on that whole foothold thing for, like, 4.34 seconds, max.




Tomorrow brings new light for everyone and new life for a few...including my daughter. Wish us luck, send us some good vibes, and don't freak out if you don't hear from us until Saturday. We'll check in soon.

Posted by Chris at July 21, 2005 09:30 PM
Comments

Good luck! We're all rooting for you guys! And don't forget pictures! (I know I know...LIke that would happen...but seriously? It's a baby. YOUR baby. You'll forget your own damn name before the day's over with.)

Posted by: Queen Of Ass at July 21, 2005 09:34 PM

My very best to you and your family.

Cas

Posted by: cassie-b at July 21, 2005 09:37 PM

Good luck! You're going to be a great daddy... you'll find your foothold! I'll be thinking happy thoughts for you tomorrow.

Posted by: Nicole at July 21, 2005 09:37 PM

Good luck! Can't wait to see her (if you're posting photos), and to hear the name. :)

Posted by: Daria at July 21, 2005 09:37 PM

OMG has it been that long since I have been around? It is THAT time! Good luck and best wishes that all will go as smoothly as I know it will. What a magnificent day tomorrow will be!

Posted by: Michelle at July 21, 2005 09:38 PM

Good luck with EVERYTHING... and how good is that photo!

Posted by: Alice at July 21, 2005 09:39 PM

Chris and Beth,
I wish you both the best tomorrow as you welcome your angel into the world! Know that there is a whole world of "strangers" that can not wait to see her and watch you as you relish in all your glory as parents. I know without a doubt that your daughter is very blessed to have the two of you for parents and it all comes to you naturally.

What a blessing for you both to bring a sweet new little girl into this world. It is your deepest love for each other coming to life in your child.

You will both fall in love like you never knew possible tomorrow as she is born. You are in my thoughts and prayers. You will be fine. Blessings!

(please give her a sweet little forehead kiss from "Auntie T".)

Posted by: Tricia at July 21, 2005 09:39 PM

sending good vibes your way. can't wait to see photos...LOTS of 'em :)

Posted by: tiffanie at July 21, 2005 09:41 PM

Good luck, I am so happy for you! I can't wait to see pictures of the baby. I love you guys (yes, I know that is weird when I have never met you, but I can't help it)!

Posted by: goodsnake at July 21, 2005 09:51 PM

it's finally heeeeeeeere. i'm so thrilled for you two. so exciting! i'm going to pee my pants soon. good luck! post 2384 pictures! don't pass out!

Posted by: kate at July 21, 2005 10:00 PM

Chris,
Wishing you and Beth and your new daughter a bright, beautiful and flawless day tomorrow. Enjoy your last moments as a father to be. I've enjoyed my whole life my parents story of how they felt and acted the night before I was born. lol The next chapter of your lives together will be wonderful and joyous.

Amy

Posted by: amy at July 21, 2005 10:08 PM

Best of luck to all three of you! May everything go absolutely perfectly for you tomorrow... All the best...

Posted by: Keri at July 21, 2005 10:13 PM

Good LUCK! I'm so excited to see pictures!!

Posted by: Dooneybug at July 21, 2005 10:19 PM

good luck guys ... rub her back and feet as often as she needs it! your wife, not your soon-to-be-born daughter. although, she'd probably dig it too. anyway, take good care of her!

Posted by: tj at July 21, 2005 10:22 PM

All good vibes coming your way!! I am so excited for you guys!! This is your last night as free people!! *snicker* I joke...Really, best of luck for a smooth day tomorrow and every day....

Posted by: jen at July 21, 2005 10:28 PM

Good Luck!! I am so thrilled for you and Beth! I will be thinking of you and your family. I know you are freaking out but you are going to do just great Dad ;)

Posted by: Chrissie at July 21, 2005 10:34 PM

I've been thinking of the two of you all day as I've prepared for my new life with paint and furniture, thinking of how much monumental it must feel to be thinking of meeting your daughter.

Remember all of that silly breathing. And if she calls you mean things, remember that she doesn't mean it. And keep kleenex handy. People usually cry when having babies (I used to work in a hospital...).

I'm so excited for you both! I can't wait to hear that everyone is happy and healthy. :o)

Posted by: Emily at July 21, 2005 10:41 PM

What a beautiful, magical photo.

Good luck tomorrow. I'll be sending you good thoughts all day!

Posted by: Lisa at July 21, 2005 10:44 PM

It truly seems time has flown with this pregnancy. Congratulations, love and luck.

Posted by: Lisa V at July 21, 2005 10:46 PM

i wish you nothing but the best tomorrow as you begin this wonderous journey they call parenthood.

Posted by: monique at July 21, 2005 10:47 PM

Best wishes and all good things to you, Beth and you families. What an exciting time for you!
Freaking out is so totally normal!!
Good luck Chris and hang in there - not long now :)

Posted by: DaFFy at July 21, 2005 10:53 PM

Good luck tomorrow. Take lots of pics, and pamper Beth she deserves it!

Posted by: Beanhead at July 21, 2005 11:07 PM

So excited for you and Beth, talk about the calm before the storm! I'm sending out good vibes and love to your whole family, I can't wait to hear all about it. Good luck and tell us all about it when you can.

Posted by: Nic at July 21, 2005 11:14 PM

The big day is finally here--congratulations to you both and good luck tomorrow!!

Posted by: Liz at July 21, 2005 11:15 PM

As the only dad in attendance, I'll let you in on a secret.

You know at the end of "Dr. Strangelove", when Slim Pickens rides the A-bomb to his destiny, a-whoopin' and a-hollerin'?

You'll know how he felt. Only the ending is much, much better. Cheers!

Posted by: Jason at July 21, 2005 11:20 PM

Oh, Chris and Beth, good luck and Godspeed!

I have been getting so teary about this-- I'm sure it's not the champagne...

xoxo,

Jen

Posted by: Jen at July 21, 2005 11:22 PM

Best of luck to you Chris, and also to Beth and the Bean. Freaking out is the natural male reaction to such an occurance. We really have very little to do with the whole thing and nuturing usually isn't our bag. I think that's what makes the cliff look so daunting. You'll be fine, the footholds reveal themselves at just the right moment. Have fun.

Posted by: j.tonic at July 21, 2005 11:22 PM

Ohhhhh...I cried over that beautiful picture this a.m. over at Beth's and I'm crying here now. Bless all three of you as Bean is brought into the world, proof of your love for each other!

Take care of each other and your beloved daughter. This is the highlight of your lives together.

Oh yeah, and whoever said to have tissue handy was dead on! I sob uncontrollably at all of my births! It's the most unprofessional thing I could do but I just can't help it!

Hugs to you all.

Amy

Posted by: doulazanie at July 21, 2005 11:37 PM

I was under the impression you were going to blog from the delivery room. :)

I wish you and Beth the very best - a speedy delivery, and I'm just so excited for the two of you. You are loved here in the blogosphere! I'll be sending lots of good thoughts. can't WAIT to finally meet the Bean, in the flesh.

Posted by: samantha at July 21, 2005 11:43 PM

Anticipatory congratulations to both you and Beth! Remember to take lots of pictures ;)

Posted by: Mel at July 21, 2005 11:44 PM

Good luck. You, Beth and the tiny Bean will be in my thoughts. I look forward to all the gross details.

Posted by: Halo at July 22, 2005 12:20 AM

Glad to see this photo! You make me cry! AND I see Beth is done!(Right on time) She popped her button! : ) Grin

You will be wonderful tomorrow! Hang in there and just be supportive of the Beth! She needs you now more than ever! *****HUGS*****

Posted by: Gypsy at July 22, 2005 12:49 AM

My gift to you, on this, the night before your wonderful daughter arrives. Blessings to you and Beth.

Baby's First Day

Wonder of all wonderment!
Momentous moment when small form
First feels life in itself.
When new eyes open wide
On old, old world.
When tiny hands handle air;
Touch tenderness and love.
When ears first wake to sound
And silent lips find voice and food.
Soon newly wakened baby wearies.
World will keep.
Being born is quite enough
For one short day.
Baby hands rest;
Baby mouth yawns;
Baby eyes close in sleep.


(Poem by Mary Dawson Hughes)

Posted by: Lori at July 22, 2005 01:02 AM

I knew you guys were gonna do this while I was on vacation.....I wish you joy and love and happiness and warm fuzzies....I have faith in both of your abilities to do this and everything that lies ahead. You go and have a beautiful baby, I'm on the edge of my seat here, on vacation....but actually closer to you guys now than when I''m at home :) My thoughts are with you guys...

Three is a magic number :)

Posted by: Kate at July 22, 2005 01:20 AM

I am so excited, eeeeee! You can believe you'll all be in my thoughts tomorrow! :)

Posted by: Chepooka at July 22, 2005 01:29 AM

All my good thoughts and prayers and wishes and hopes are aimed in your direction. Every one has new chapters in their life; this is a whole new volume.
It's been wonderful sharing this up to now and I'm so looking forward to hearing about the new beginnings, hands on. And what a gift to us all that a new child is being welcomed to the world with so much love and care.

Posted by: vicki at July 22, 2005 01:32 AM

Congratulations! And love the picture. I do that one a lot with the pregnant mamas.

There is nothing like a daughter. And there's nothing like a daddy with his daughter. You're about to embark on a truly life-changing relationship (trying not to sound super-schmaltzy, but hey - if you can't get schmaltzy about childbirth and becoming a daddy, what CAN you get schmaltzy about? And also, I'm trying to see how many times I can use schmaltzy in one paragraph. Four is the max, I think.

Really, when we had our first daughter, it was like everything else fell away and life, and the wonder of it all become crystal clear. Granted, that came after/during the wretched labor, the (yes) tearing (sorry), the three months of colic every night starting at 10, and lasting, almost without fail, for three hours, and the zombie-groggy-exhausto state you're in for the first few weeks, uh - make that months. But truly, you can totally use that against them when they're horrible, angsty, rebellious teenagers. And really, if we don't have that as parents, what do we have? =)

All kidding aside, when you look into those little eyes for the first time, and she grasps your finger with her tiny, little, perfect, half-moon-paper-thin-nail fingers your world will seriously tilt. It's magical. You don't realize how full your heart can be until you're a parent. The love is so completely different than the love you have for your spouse. They're equal, but different.

I wish you both an easy labor, friends to bring you dinner and family to come over so you can sleep a few hours. It's an amazing, joyous time. And of course, I don't have to remind you to take loads of photos of these first few weeks, as it seems like they (literally) change daily...I'm sure our kids will probably be in competition for most photographed children in history.

Posted by: Kelly McCord at July 22, 2005 01:46 AM

*sending good vibes*
Found your link at Razzle Frazzle and wanted to wish you all the best of luck. :)

Posted by: Angela at July 22, 2005 01:53 AM

GOOD LUCK! Good luck. Good luck. I'll be thinking about you all, and sending good vibes all the way from up here. Take care, and oh yeah...good luck!

:-)

Posted by: Tamara at July 22, 2005 04:01 AM

GOOD LUCK! Everything will be fine :)

This is going to be the best day of your lives. I'm so excited for you! :)

Posted by: Emily at July 22, 2005 05:38 AM

My thoughts are with all of you for a safe and speedy introduction of The Bean into this wild and wacky world of ours.

Enjoy EVERY SINGLE SECOND of it all! Congrats!!!!

Posted by: ironic1 at July 22, 2005 06:56 AM

Best wishes to the three of you!

Posted by: OSG at July 22, 2005 07:13 AM

Good Luck! I'm sure that everything will go perfectly, and I'd like to welcome you to what I like to call, "Freaking the Fuck out for the next 18 years"... oh, strike that, let's just make it the rest of your life. :)

But you know, I wouldn't trade this job of parent for anything else in the world. :)

Posted by: amber at July 22, 2005 07:36 AM

I'm keeping the three of you in my thoughts, and I'm so excited to hear your story(s?)!

Posted by: ~L. at July 22, 2005 07:38 AM

gros bisous!

Posted by: stinkerbell at July 22, 2005 07:42 AM

Awwww! I'm all teary with excitement for you guys. I can't believe I have another six weeks to wait for my little bundle of joy. My arms actually ache to hold a baby. You no doubt have felt the same. God bless you.

Posted by: hr mommy at July 22, 2005 08:00 AM

Best of luck to you both. I know it will go as planned and can't wait to see pics of The Bean(TM)

Posted by: donna at July 22, 2005 08:11 AM

i can't believe the day is finally here! man, i'm all teary-eyed now... *sniffle* congrats and good luck and all that jazz. :) you guys take all the time you want getting to know your daughter before you share her with the rest of us (even though we're all dying to see her, too!). thank you so much for sharing this adventure with all of us. it's been very cool, to say the least. :) congrats again!

Posted by: Judy at July 22, 2005 08:14 AM

I can't believe the day is here. I am, of course, thrilled for you both.

Have a glorious day, and Happy Birthday to the Bean!!

Posted by: autumn at July 22, 2005 08:20 AM

good luck, good luck, good luck!!!

welcome little lima bean :)

Posted by: suze at July 22, 2005 08:27 AM

WOOHOO!! Here she comes!! Make sure you and Beth go out tonight and have an awesome dinner b/c i'm sure ice chips aren't gonna cut it after all that labor!! Congrats and good luck to the THREE of ya!! :) You two will be the best mommy and daddy ever!

Posted by: Michelle at July 22, 2005 08:29 AM

Life will change irrevocably, that is all I can tell you. I'm thinking very happy thoughts for you guys and as I've said before, I'm so darn excited for you.

Welcome home, daddy.

Posted by: A.K. at July 22, 2005 08:39 AM

Ehhh, baby years aren't as bad as most people want you to believe! I mean, yeah it's demanding and all. ... but teenagers? Forget it. I'm freaking the fuck out about having 2 teenagers in my house at the same time someday. At least when they're little they're cute and they still love you and they don't steal your car in the middle of the night!
Anyway,
good luck for the millionth time. I'm crazy excited for you guys! Congrats, Daddy! :)

Posted by: RockStar Mommy at July 22, 2005 09:01 AM

Good Luck!!!

Posted by: judy at July 22, 2005 09:03 AM

She could be like 10 minutes old by now!

Wooooo!

Posted by: Stacey at July 22, 2005 09:20 AM

Congratulations!! By the time you read this you will offically be a Daddy! I am very happy for you and Beth! =)

Posted by: Jenny at July 22, 2005 09:25 AM

CONGRATULATIONS! Can't wait to "meet" The Bean once she arrives! I'm sending TONS of good baby-entering-the-world-universe-warm-fuzzies and good vibes your way!!

Posted by: carrster at July 22, 2005 09:27 AM

Outstanding, yo! And remember, Chris, whatever Beth says to you while she's giving birth -- you know, about how you're the bastard who knocked her up a la Bill Cosby -- she doesn't mean it.

Wishing y'all a five-minute labor. Post pictures soonest!

Posted by: Broad at July 22, 2005 09:35 AM

that's the most amazing picture!

By now, you are probably a DADDY. Congratulations to you & your wife. Hope everyone is doing great and getting a little rest. My very best wishes to you all three.

Posted by: kalisah at July 22, 2005 09:38 AM

Sending you good good good good vibrations!

Posted by: Mike at July 22, 2005 09:46 AM

I'm so excited for you!! I'm guessing by now you're already holding your baby girl. Enjoy this special time.

Posted by: Sweety at July 22, 2005 09:53 AM

you guys are going to be great parents. From reading and enjoying your site, you can just tell. Good luck and enjoy the ride.

Posted by: Chris at July 22, 2005 10:06 AM

Is she here, yet?
Is she here, yet?
Is she here, yet?

Congratulations!!!

Posted by: lucy at July 22, 2005 10:12 AM

Congratulations and GOOD LUCK today!!! I know she will be a real beauty!

Posted by: Katie-be-bored-at-work at July 22, 2005 10:18 AM

Happy Birth Day to you!
Happy Birth Day to you!
Happy Birth Day Little Bean,
Happy Birth Day to You!

Mazel Tov! :)

Posted by: Sue at July 22, 2005 10:28 AM

Life as you know it will forever be changed. In a good way, I promise.

Posted by: trb at July 22, 2005 10:37 AM

Congrats again!
I'm thinking about you guys all day today, and am hoping for a safe and healthy delivery! Make sure Beth gets some rest - YOU can update her blog for her, since you guys are blog whores. ;p
Have fun becoming a daddy!

Posted by: Kitty at July 22, 2005 10:49 AM

Wishing you all the best in this new era in your lives. It is the hardest job you will ever love!! We have all read and look as "bean" haS developed and wish all three of you infinite amounts of joy and laughter. There is no other feeling in this world that compares to holding your child for the first time. May you be blessed on this day and all the days that follow.

Posted by: pam at July 22, 2005 10:59 AM

I'm sure you'll do fine. My parents didn't know how to raise kids either and look how I turned out!! Wait....nevermind. Good luck!

Posted by: Grace at July 22, 2005 11:07 AM

Dont worry abot us. Enjoy your new nad improved family. I sincerely hope the bean's name will work with with prefix Miss so that when she's an old biddy she'll be called Miss XXX

Posted by: verucaamish at July 22, 2005 11:10 AM

Rude Cactus...Daddy.
Cue the happy-sad crying.
Congratulations!

Posted by: Jenny at July 22, 2005 11:11 AM

The first ruling thought of the day was that Beth and Chris are gonna have their baby girl today :) So u can be assured you're in my thoughts...... and am sure plenty more! Good luck and enjoy the moment :) Can't wait to see your li'l girl!

Posted by: Luna at July 22, 2005 11:15 AM

I came VERY close to getting teary eyed this morning thinking about you guys. Best of luck!

Posted by: alfredsmom at July 22, 2005 11:23 AM

I thought about you guys this morning when I woke up and what a huge day it is for you. We're all rooting for you!

Posted by: Heather at July 22, 2005 11:52 AM

Oh dear lord! Today is the day!!

We are all rooting for you, beth, and the bean!

Posted by: Veronica at July 22, 2005 11:53 AM

Good Luck!!!

Posted by: Sonia at July 22, 2005 12:34 PM

Best wishes!

Posted by: Ginny at July 22, 2005 12:40 PM

Beth, Bean, and you are in my thoughts and prayers today.

Congratualtions Pop, you are gonna be a most excellent father.

Posted by: Angelia at July 22, 2005 12:43 PM

Yay baby! Can't wait to hear from you!!

~Good Vibes~Good Vibes~Good Vibes~Good Vibes~

Posted by: Amy at July 22, 2005 12:56 PM

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, Miss BEAN!

What's your name what's your name?!

Posted by: Phillip at July 22, 2005 01:12 PM

Thinking of all three of you today. Unbelievably excited and thrilled for you :)

Posted by: wavybrains at July 22, 2005 01:23 PM

Amazing picture! I wish we'd have done something like that .... however, now I don't exactly have the preggo belly, so the chance is gone.

I didn't know it's a girl! Girls are great! :-)

Good luck, happy pushing, and don't be alarmed if it takes something like 20 freakin' hours to give birth.

Posted by: indigo at July 22, 2005 01:26 PM

Good luck, Chris! And personally, I don't expect to see you for quite some time--you'll be too busy admiring your daughter and doting on your very tired wife. :)

Posted by: Spring at July 22, 2005 01:30 PM

I can't wait to hear what name you've picked for her. I Hope everything goes well

Posted by: Pixie at July 22, 2005 01:39 PM

Happy thoughts to you all!

Gorgeous picture

xo Kath

Posted by: Kathryn at July 22, 2005 01:42 PM

Good luck, yo!

Posted by: mac at July 22, 2005 01:49 PM

Let me know!! I wanna know the details!!

Posted by: mrsmogul at July 22, 2005 01:55 PM

I'm so excited for you! And Cactus, I'm sure that you both are going to be wonderful parents. Just make sure and hide the car keys better than your folks did! ;0)

Posted by: Bayou at July 22, 2005 02:07 PM

Thinking of you and Beth and I can't wait to hear all about your little girl.

Posted by: Y at July 22, 2005 02:18 PM

Hope all three of you are sleeping with smiles at this point! Can't wait to hear the details and see pics of the new cactus! This is one lucky little girl.

Posted by: granola at July 22, 2005 03:24 PM

Hooray! Congrats to you both, and happy birthday to the Bean!

Posted by: samantha at July 22, 2005 03:35 PM

Haunting your site today hoping that you decided to have mercy and pop in to upload some pics (cuz it's all about the Internetswebosphere you know...)

Hope all is well and you are all basking in the glory that is your daughter.

Amy

Posted by: zanie at July 22, 2005 03:43 PM

After 92 comments there's not much I can add. You will discover things about yourself you hate, things you love about life you missed and find an overwhelming need to make the world a little better. It will all come in a tiny package less than 10 pounds. Remember to tell your wife, "Thank you," because you are a decent human being and remember it's just like your wedding, it's all about her tomorrow. You're just there for support. The next 3 months aren't about sleep. They're about 3 things, they cry because they are dirty, hungry or sleepy. Everytime you change a diper, that little bean will probably have to change yours in a few decades. So put in what you want to get out.

~Jef

Posted by: Jef at July 22, 2005 03:53 PM

Might I also suggest Marc Cohn's song "Things We've Handed Down" to reflect on the first few times you watch her sleep.

~Jef

Posted by: Jef at July 22, 2005 03:54 PM

Warmest wishes out to you, the wife and your bean!

Posted by: Krista at July 22, 2005 04:07 PM

Congrats on the birth of The Bean!!!! Good luck!!!

Posted by: Sassy at July 22, 2005 04:29 PM

all the best for the big day and for the rest of your lives as a fazmily

Posted by: chlamygirl at July 22, 2005 05:02 PM

Good luck Chris!

I can't wait to see some baby pictures of your new baby! When my baby sister was born she looked like a Furby.

Posted by: Rockchild at July 22, 2005 05:12 PM

Wow. Feel all that Love and Positivity! (that a word???) You three are just radiating with all this good energy-I know it. You must be glowing.
Please know that you're responsible for a whole crapload of smiles today. I think this is what Life is all about, eh? :-)))))
If there's room for one more kiss on the top of the Bean's sweet-scented head, plant one for me.
Don't even attempt to respond to these comments, we understand!

Posted by: JuJu's Mom at July 22, 2005 05:18 PM

Chris, all I can say is that the first three months is gona be hell, but It's also gona be the greatest time of your life! Those are the memories you will cherish when your old and grey eating Bagels.

Rockchild, you sure get around.

Posted by: Dumbass Reporter at July 22, 2005 05:19 PM

Congratulations to the three of you! I wish you all the great blessings you can tolerate. Take care and take deep breaths.

Posted by: Susan at July 22, 2005 06:20 PM

Fingers crossed for all of you and best wishes Chris!

Can't wait for the report... erm... post. I meant post!

10 fingers, 10 toes, blackberry, apgar rating 9-10..... yup! Here's hoping all is in order!

Much love to You, Beth, and your precious angel.

Posted by: Scarlett Cyn (aka White Girl All Good) at July 22, 2005 06:29 PM

Congratulations!!!!!!!! I dont really know you or your wife just what Ive read and I dont know if I have met two more deserving people. Wishing all the best in the World for your Family tomarrow and always!!!

Posted by: Kelly M. at July 22, 2005 06:39 PM

good luck!
i can't wait to hear the good news!

Posted by: ali at July 22, 2005 06:50 PM

I don't have much to add to the discussion between the waiting masses but wanted to say how lovely it is that I feel like we're somehow all in this together. Siiigh. A nice big family. Just don't expect me to change diapers, okay?!

Posted by: Tamara at July 22, 2005 08:43 PM

OMG!!!!! I'm so excited for you guys!!! *Seriously good vibes being sent*

Posted by: Sashinka at July 22, 2005 09:03 PM

Good Luck and God Bless.

Posted by: Gatsby at July 23, 2005 08:37 AM

woke up early this morning, and thought good thoughts for you. Welcome, bean!

Posted by: susan at July 23, 2005 09:31 AM

Anxiously awaiting the news... all my best to you and Beth!

Posted by: Tonya at July 23, 2005 10:32 AM

Aw, how beautiful. Congratulations. Love the picture, and the cliff/foothold analogy. You will find them just fine.

Posted by: Kris at July 23, 2005 10:31 PM